Would you consider Nepalese people to be desi? I was raised in the states so I'm confused but all the Nepalese people I know don't consider themselves desi but I had this Indian girl tell me we are so I don't know?
We had this conversation on this blog not too long ago. I’ll link you to some posts here. (1x, 2x, 3x, 4x, 5x)
But basically some Nepalis would consider themselves to be Desi and some wouldn’t. I personally do not identify as Desi because I feel like that term is more suitable for Indian/Pakistani/Bangladeshis (and even then, some of them may not identify as such..It’s tough to say). I think it’s best to let Nepalis decide what they identify as. You know yourself and your heritage the best, and don’t let anyone tell you what to or what not to identify as. Nepalis have a very diverse culture, so our identity is also going to be very diverse. People may try to put you in a box or in one specific category for whatever reason, and you don’t have to accept it if you don’t agree with it. Simple as that :)
Also my friend @hippie-from-nepal shared this TED talk video with me not too long ago. I think a lot of people like us (Nepali heritage but didn’t really grow up in Nepal or moved around a lot etc) can agree or relate to a lot of things she talks about.